CommunicateEX is unique in that you will receive recommendations of actual words and sentences to use in your communication. What you could have said, what you could say differently next time, and what you can say in your next response. Also, if relevant, ways you can raise certain topics and initiate communication with your ex-partner.

CommunicateEX is a communication upgrade.  

The reason so many of us have difficulty with communication, conflict and relationships is that we just weren’t taught this stuff. We didn’t learn it a school or in our family. Every one of us can become a better and more complete communicator, you too. You just have to know how and put in the work.  

CommunicateEX will help you with the know-how.

For over 30 years, I have worked with people from different cultures, socioeconomics and educational backgrounds and I am yet to meet a person who can’t change. We all add new experiences to ourselves that change us in small and sometimes large ways every day.

“No person ever walks through the same river twice, because it’s not the same river and it’s not the same person.”  Heraclitus

Every day I meet with people who have run out of ideas to try, when communicating with their ex-partner. Maybe you are here too. This, however, never means that someone has “tried it all”. It just means what they have tried so far hasn’t worked and they are out of ideas. If this is you, don’t give up. CommunicateEX is the perfect service to try next.

Continuing to have the same old interactions in the same old ways won't lead anywhere new.  

Einstein stated that “Insanity is doing the same thing repeatedly and expecting different results.”

CommunicateEX is about finding new ways, new roads. Finding brand new ways of having the old communication or finding brand new communication.

New roads don’t guarantee a new destination. They do however guarantee a new journey, and this has the best shot, the only shot of ending up somewhere new and creating positive and constructive change in communication with your ex-partner.

Communication is a two (or more) person dance. When one person changes the way they engage in communication, the communication changes. When you change your half, you change the whole. When half of any whole changes, the whole changes. It cannot stay the same.

Recently I was working with a couple and received the following text.

“Thank you for working with me and John. I don’t know what you said to him but he has started being kind again.”

This was sent by John’s partner, Pam (their names have been changed) one week after I had scheduled an individual meeting with both. What I love about this is that I hadn’t met with John yet. The planned session with John didn’t happen. It was rescheduled at the last minute. At the time I received the text, I had only met with Pam and worked with her on what she could do differently. The changes she made were therefore the only difference in the relationship. Her changes created a positive ripple throughout the relationship and altered John’s behaviour towards her.

Never underestimate the change one person in a communication system can create.

It is easiest to understand how this works when looking at your ex-partner. If you have ever thought (and we all have!) - “If only he would stop doing that!” or  “If only she would start doing that!” This is a recognition that if only your ex-partner would change what they did, then that would in some way create change. The same then must be true in reverse. If you change what you do, this creates changes.

When you change the way you communicate with your ex-partner, the communication with your ex-partner will change.

What we cant guarantee is what the change you create will be. However, with guidance and an understanding of patterns, you can do all you can to create positive constructive change.

Please contact me if you don’t like the suggestions. I will respond to any feedback and attempt to help you further. I am committed to helping you make a difference in your life.

If the suggestions don’t make sense to you, consider investing in the MasterClass – Stop the Nonsense With Your Ex. This MasterClass covers 5 essential fundamentals of communication, conflict and change. An understanding of these 5 pathways and the practical tools involved, will help you make the most of the CommunicateEX coaching.

The suggestions and advice are based on the information you have provided and on 30 years of professional experiences gained working with 1000's of people. CommunicateEX will provide suggestions and ideas for you to consider. A guide for possible constructive directions. The choice whether to follow through with these suggestions is 100% yours.

Your privacy and confidentiality is of highest importance to me.

All the information you provide is kept securely.

I am the only person, who has access. It is never shared with any third party.

I delete all your information, once I have sent your personalised video response.

You also don't need to provide your real name. I'm happy to work anonymously with you. 

Yes, please check out the MasterClass – Stop the Nonsense With Your Ex.

This MasterClass covers 5 essential fundamentals of communication, conflict and change.

An understanding of these 5 pathways and the practical tools involved, will help you make the most of the CommunicateEX coaching.

When you purchase CommunicateEX video coaching you will receive a $20 OFF discount code.

If you want to work with me individually, please book in a 1:1 coaching session.

This will allow you and I to create a more thorough individualised action plan to help you move forward.

The guidance provided in one CommunicateEX video has the potential to create change and transformation. Small changes can often create big outcomes.

Often however, the actions you take as a result of the CommunicateEX guidance will be the first step (or the next step) in a constructive direction. The aim is that your actions create movement and momentum toward where you want to be. The key is in progress, not perfection.

My overall hope is the guidance provided in a CommunicateEX video will inform the way you communicate and deal with your ex-partner in all future interactions. My aim is to transform the way you communicate thus creating transformation in the way communication happens.